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« Reply #15 on: June 25, 2006, 07:42:54 PM » |
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« Reply #16 on: July 05, 2006, 05:48:43 PM » |
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I learned A LOT that I wouldn't have learned otherwise. My MK experience took place before all of us survivors met, so I ended up comparing it to and researching Amway. What a fascinating eye-opener that was!! LOL *thank you MLMsurvivors group* Well I am hopefully smarter now and hope I've passed on some wisdom so that people won't make the same mistake I did. Not to mention all the great women I met through the boards--LauraJ, Tracy, PC to mention a few, and men (Jonathan and MKD if you are here) who made me feel like not such a dummy but rather a learner from experience!! I'm still here so I'm still interested  and passing the word on and making trouble here and there. I figure if a little bit of feeling uncomfortable saves you a couple thousand bucks (or even a marriage) down the road it's well worth it. ((((big hugs y'all)))) Edited to add: I also learned What a sucker I can be too *big laughs at self** Let him who think he stands take heed lest he falls 
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« Reply #17 on: July 07, 2006, 06:34:54 PM » |
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Unpinked - so beautiful post! Thank you!
I got one of my best friends through MK, and her husband has become one of my husbands good friends.
Like UYC, I do feel I gained sales and marketing exp, and use that in my current career. I too include on my resume.
Was very shy before - now not afraid to stand my ground and know better how to meet people, chat with them, and get to know them. Was very hard for me before. I can introduce myself, and look people in the eye now.
Still an introvert at heart and learned that I like that about me! Was always at war with that in MK because you can't be introverted there. I learned that is my personality, and it calms me to be that way.
I learned to spot a scam and advertising tactics a mile away!
I learned to not trust others so readily, regardless of how sincere they appear, and not to always believe what I see, hear and read. Not that I always did before, but I REALLY don't now!
Just learned a lot about me, and other people's personalities. Had to do a lot of introspection afterwards as well. It's very good to know yourself well, and never wonder "what if..."
Oh yeah - and learned that credit card debt is an experience I NEVER want to repeat!!! :o
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« Reply #18 on: July 09, 2006, 06:36:42 PM » |
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Probably the best benefit I received from MK is my current hair stylist! We had a "glamour shots" night and she was the stylist who did all the models hair. She's great and I'm so glad that I found her!
AND...I learned that I am not good at sales...never have been (couldn't even sell girl scout cookies!) and never will be! And I learned to appreciate my J.O.B. I worked very hard to get my degrees. I make a good living. And what I do can really make a difference in someone's life!
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« Reply #19 on: July 10, 2006, 11:20:20 AM » |
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I met all of you!
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« Reply #20 on: July 12, 2006, 01:05:03 PM » |
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I will have to say that some of the (expensive) training did help my self-esteem. Of course, the aftermath of debt, too much inventory, disappointing my director by not selling enough, kind of crushed that.
But I do feel that I now know what I want to do with my life after coming through the whole thing. (And it is not MK!) I did make some good friends that I still keep in touch with.
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« Reply #21 on: August 15, 2006, 11:23:28 PM » |
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I too was able to put sales experience on my resume, which led to an OK job at a department store, on commission. (They wanted to hire me for the cosmetics counter but since I was still an active consultant it was a conflict of interest). I left that job because I found that commission sales was bringing out bad character traits in me. (overcompetitiveness with coworkers, trying to sell people more expensive products than they needed, etc.--sound familiar to anyone?) Worked at a more fulfilling, but lower paying job for a few years. Needed a change from that, so I again used the sales experience on my resume and got a job at a bank. When my position started to focus on getting people to take out loans, it bothered me to encourage people to borrow, since I knew what it was like to be in debt (thanks in large part to MK). I was forced to think about what I really wanted to do, and ended up going back to nursing school, a venture started previously but stopped because of lack of funds (not-so-coincidentally when I was trying to support myself on Mary Kay :  ). So now I am a nurse and I love it and I guess I can say that the MK experience helped me to know what I want from a job (helping others; making a dependable, steady income; not being tempted to take advantage of others, etc). Also, it gave me the sales experience to get the dept store job, which led to the bank job, which was actually a good job in a lot of ways. I still have friends from there, too. But I don't still have friends from Mary Kay, for some reason!
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« Reply #22 on: August 15, 2006, 11:34:03 PM » |
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Oh, I thought of another way I benefitted from MK!
I was at a meeting and the consultant next to me asked me what size shoes I wore. I told her, and she said she had a pair of Italian leather shoes in my size that didn't fit her and she'd bring them next week. Well, all I can say is that these shoes make up for a lot of the bad MK experiences I've had. They fit like they were made for me, they're comfortable yet dressy, and they've always been in style, and I've worn them regularly for 10 YEARS and am just now taking them in for a bit of repair.
Wow, realizing this makes me feel kind of good about the whole MK experience! Of course I could have gone to Italy and bought them myself with the money I wasted...oh well!
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« Reply #23 on: September 23, 2006, 10:45:18 PM » |
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Great Thread! Ancora Imparo! I am still learning!
I learned a lot about people. I have people that STILL owe me money for product, and I see them weekly. I know what kind of people they are now.
I learned that people will lie to avoid paying you, holding a class, or trying a new sample. I can now spot when someone is avoiding something, and that is a good tool in life. No more waiting on other people when it comes to me and my life!
I learned that family do not trust new things. No matter how much they love you. I can see it in everything now. And I didn't even realize that I did it too! I never trust a new diet that my sister in law is trying! Hm....
I learned that you can't ASK someone to buy something, and in the same breath, OFFER them something, it is two different things.
I learned that people will sometimes do things that they don't want to do if they think it will get you off of their back, and they will resent you for it later.
I learned that I can like something and not need to justify it.
I learned that everyone has an opinion.
And I learned that even 40 somethings want to wear prom dresses again, if just for one night, to dress up and feel like a teenager. I always liked Seminar, dressing up, playing.....
(I love God too, but he didn't feel as close during my MK time. I had taken the wheel for myself then....I feel closer to God NOW.)
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« Reply #24 on: September 24, 2006, 01:48:55 PM » |
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Amen to that, Sad!
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« Reply #25 on: September 30, 2006, 10:17:55 AM » |
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Great lessons SSW! I learned many of the same things during my time with MK. . . and I don't remember my director telling me these are the types of lessons that I would take from the experience.  Most importantly, I did learn that I feel closer to my faith now than in the last year - how can you let God close to your heart when it's surrounded by greed and materialism that MK preaches?
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« Reply #26 on: September 30, 2006, 01:18:32 PM » |
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Most importantly, I did learn that I feel closer to my faith now than in the last year - how can you let God close to your heart when it's surrounded by greed and materialism that MK preaches?
Yeah, I have to agree here.  always said "God is leading me into car qualification, God wants me to do 30 faces in 30 days...." and I just felt farther and farther away from God....
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"Some people care 'bout what other people think, worry 'bout what they say. Let a little gossip coming from a loose lip ruin a perfect day. Sayin' 'bla bla bla' just jackin' their jaws, gotta let it roll off-a my back. I don't give a damn what other people think, what do ya think about that?" M. G.
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« Reply #27 on: October 06, 2006, 01:32:02 PM » |
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WOW, what did I learn while in mk? Let me see..... I learned who I truly am, and to be that person no matter what others think. I learned to be self confident. I now have some self esteem. I know what I want in life and what I don't want!!! And don't no one tell me different!! I am a better person, a better mom, friend, wife and I know it's ok to love myself. I learned how "friends" aren't always your friends and to pick my friends better! I learned to listen to my "HEART"! I learned it's ok not to want what others want. I learned that I don't like to be the center of attention and on stage waving (looking STUPID)!! I learned it's ok to "JUST BE ME"!!!!!!!! I don't hate the whole mk thing! I just hate the fact that I got screwed by a back stabbing bi_ch!! I am thankful for the things I learned. I just wish I would have learned to be a bolder woman. To stand up to RC  and tell her the things I know about her. The things others have come to me and told me. I wish I could point out to her how she has talked behind many peoples backs and now she is pretending to be their friend. hhhhhhhmmmmm But, just maybe this is how GOD wants me....meek, quite (at times), loving! And, I guess God is a better judge and jury then I ever will be. So it's his to do with whatever he desires!  Sorry, I hope I didn't bore anyone! But, thank you for letting me go with the flow today!!
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« Reply #28 on: October 06, 2006, 01:40:34 PM » |
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I learned the art of applying makeup. I am married of 4 years and my husbands daughter was 21 at the time. She worked for Lancome. She taught me make-up application and really helped me boost my MK business. The best thing -- it was something that we could enjoy in common and we are now wonderful friends.
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« Reply #29 on: October 06, 2006, 02:00:40 PM » |
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Pinkedout, that is awesome!!!! Love karma to you!!!!
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