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« on: January 09, 2007, 03:24:29 AM »
Just feeling kinda blue today cuz my director/best friend got the letter I sent her about getting out and returning product. Even though I believe I'm doing the right thing, it still hurts so much.
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« Reply #1 on: January 09, 2007, 06:43:13 AM »
I think you are doing the right think. If she is a true friend, she will understand your reasons. Keep your chin up girl!!! You are making a good decision for yourself and your family. You will be home for your family, instead of holding "parties"  rofl But seriously, I know this must be hard, so BIG HUG GIRL!!!! bighug
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« Reply #2 on: January 09, 2007, 07:12:54 AM »
 bighug

I know it hurts.  My recruiter was my next door neighbor and friend until she became a director, got married, and moved away.  When we went to seminar last summer, she pretended like I wasn't there most of the time.  When I asked her for help with my excess inventory last summer, she was less than helpful.  When I called repurchase, she started sending me motivational 'gifts' in the mail.  I sent my products back November 30.  I had several recruits that live on my street.  She sent them all Christmas cards, but didn't send me one.

And then I got my blue check last week....   bounce

Don't worry, it's worth it.  You are doing the right thing!!!
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« Reply #3 on: January 09, 2007, 07:57:21 AM »
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I'm sorry you are hurting. Hang in there!  Time (& God) heals all things, maybe not to what we wanted but to what is best for us.  But of course you know that!

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« Reply #4 on: January 09, 2007, 08:16:40 AM »
Hang in there sorting.......the emotions of that decision weighed so heavily on me that I thought I would crack!  But then I found this site and all these wonderful ladies who have been more than just supportive.  Just feel confidence in that you have made the right decision for you--friends are friends through thick and thin and I hope that she is a true friend!
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« Reply #5 on: January 09, 2007, 08:27:11 AM »
 bighug Sorting.  It will is worth it.   bighug
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« Reply #6 on: January 09, 2007, 08:50:06 AM »
Sorting, SAD is right. If she is truely your friend, she will understand.   bighug  Hoping that today is a brighter day. Just think the next time you will feel BLUE will be when you are holding that lovely blue love check in your hands!   :hearts :hearts :hearts
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« Reply #7 on: January 09, 2007, 09:34:16 AM »
awwww, sorting, we  Love you and are here for you ANYTIME you need us!  actually, i'll probably need YOU in the very near future as I'm going to do the same thing within the next couple of weeks!  my  Kaybot is a good friend and i know she's going to have trouble trying to frame our friendship outside of the MK world ... my prayers are certainly with you and your friend!

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« Reply #8 on: January 09, 2007, 09:47:36 AM »
Hi sortie!  I just want to remind you of how far you have come!  Remember when.................

This is a learning and growing experience.  Take time to feel the grief.  It's okay to grieve.  It truly is.

We are all here for you smiley   Love
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« Reply #9 on: January 09, 2007, 05:59:02 PM »
 Girl!!!! bighug
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« Reply #10 on: January 09, 2007, 06:11:54 PM »
Aww Sortie, i hope you feel better!  bighug  :hearts :hearts :hearts
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« Reply #11 on: January 09, 2007, 07:15:54 PM »
Oh, it really is hard.  If it hadn't been for the women on this board, I think I would still be grieving and questioning.  It will get better.  And, hopefully, knowing that you're doing the right thing will help.

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« Reply #12 on: January 10, 2007, 07:30:54 AM »
This is getting harder...I just got another message from her online...she is asking me to explain myself which I already did in the letter. I am so ready to just have this behind me.
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« Reply #13 on: January 10, 2007, 07:57:22 AM »
Sorting...Try replying with a quick statement that the letter explained everything and that at this time you just need some time for yourself to get your life together.  You hope she will understand and respect your decision and that you are able to remain friends.

Other than that, I am just sorry that you are going through the stress you are and I want you to know that we are here for you when you need a shoulder!

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« Reply #14 on: January 10, 2007, 08:03:30 AM »
Quote from: sortingoutpink on January 10, 2007, 07:30:54 AM
This is getting harder...I just got another message from her online...she is asking me to explain myself which I already did in the letter. I am so ready to just have this behind me.

Since you have explained yourself, you do not owe her anything.  I would ignore her on all accounts (email, phone, etc).  If she doesn't take a hint and keeps contacting you, send a nice but short note that says something like: "I've explained myself in the letter I mailed you on XXXX, my feelings have not and will not change.  I do not need to explain myself again.  Please do not contact me in reguards to MK anymore.  Thanks"  Big HUGS.
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