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« on: October 07, 2007, 05:26:44 PM » |
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Hi - I've been reading your posts for several days now, and my conscience had already been telling me something was not right almost since the beginning of my MK days, which go back to May of this year - for many of the same reasons others have mentioned. I realize I am likely wasting my time with MK, but I'm finding it hard to let go of the original dream I had when I came in to it. Of course, I can accomplish my dream another way, but now I'm finding why "recovery" is an important part of letting MK go so that I can move on.
Is it truly not possible for any Consultant's or Director's to be earning fairly good money, or are they all either in debt or just making paltry sums? Is this a case of people who got in 30 years ago are doing okay, but that won't be possible for anyone coming in today?
I appreciate all the posters' thoughtfulness in posting what they have to say, and I have been impressed by your honesty as well as your humor. Thank you in advance for any insights and additional advice you can give me.
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« Reply #1 on: October 07, 2007, 10:36:38 PM » |
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No one wants to give up on their dreams...and sometimes it hard to admit to yourself you've been duped! Cause now you've got to explain to all your family and friends why you are getting out (aka letting go) of something you were sooo excited about! Just because you may get out of MK doesn't mean you have to give up on your dreams....stick to them and find a realistic, non pink, attainable way of getting there! Stick around...."recovery" here is a wonderfully liberating experience, not to mention a hoot with this fantastic board! Your post really showed honest and true emotion. I never found that in MK til I got here. Good luck with your decision and listen to your conscience....It's screaming at you...your name says it all! 
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« Reply #2 on: October 08, 2007, 12:06:56 AM » |
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Thank you, Sassy...I think you're absolutely right! It is hard to admit I've been duped, but deep down I know that I have been. And you are also right that my conscience is screaming at me....I just need to hear that, probably again & again, from a "real" friend!  So, thank you, Sassy! I will definitely stick around.... I just got through reading two researchers' articles on this site about MLMs in general and, given the fact they've devoted so much more time on this than I have (not to mention their professional credentials), I have the answer to my questions. The probability of achieving my dreams through MK are about the same as winning in Vegas (as if MK didn't know that all along!). Boy, oh boy! PinkDoubts
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« Reply #3 on: October 12, 2007, 03:14:43 AM » |
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Ditto Sassy, listen to your heart PD. It sounds like you have good info in your head, and your gut will tell you the rest. I stayed in MK for my friend, my recruiter. I wanted to be a good team member for her. It was really hard to admit that it wasn't for me. But I am glad I am not pretending anymore. It is a huge weight lifted. 
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"Some people care 'bout what other people think, worry 'bout what they say. Let a little gossip coming from a loose lip ruin a perfect day. Sayin' 'bla bla bla' just jackin' their jaws, gotta let it roll off-a my back. I don't give a damn what other people think, what do ya think about that?" M. G.
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« Reply #4 on: October 14, 2007, 03:18:50 PM » |
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Pink Doubts, It is hard to leave and give up your dreams. That was SO HARD for me! I really wanted to make an income working "just a few nights a week." I also wanted to prove to my family and friends that I could drive a pink caddy. I had the desire, but it just didn't happen. I really think part of it is the outdated model of MK marketing. After I've hit up all my family and friends, and their family and friends, I'm stuck. Plus, who wants to run a business that way? Ick!
I do think the idea behind this type of business is doable, but for me MK wasn't the route to take.
Best of luck in reaching your dreams!
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« Reply #5 on: October 16, 2007, 12:22:57 AM » |
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Thank you all so much, I really needed your feedback and support. I, too, didn't want to let people down who (I thought) believed in me, and I didn't want to let myself down, either. MK is addictive, I think. Directors and other consultants and the Unitnet sites all sound so believable and, before you know it, you're sucked into it.
I have to think these people really believe what they are saying and telling you...it's very hard for me to believe that they are knowingly lying to others (other than the Dacia's of the world, according to what I've read). I guess the thing is I would never knowingly deceive or lie to someone else in order to profit from their inability to book, sell or recruit and certainly not from them going into debt over it; and the other thing is, now that I see what is going on, there is no way I could ever recruit someone else into MK. My conscience would not allow me to sleep at night or look at myself in the mirror.
Thank you so much to Pink Lighthouse and Pink Truth for being there for those of us who are questioning everything and feeling/experiencing the same things so many of us out there are feeling and experiencing. Now we (I) know it's not just me.....
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« Reply #6 on: October 16, 2007, 12:48:35 AM » |
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Oh, and also, Danielle - I agree with you. I've thought many times in the last week that the MK way of doing business is outdated. I saw on CNN day before yesterday that Wal-Mart is now on its way down because of other stores conducting business better than they do; also, the internet is making an impact on the way a lot of companies do business, and not for the better - the internet is able to provide a WHOLE lot more in the way of choices of products/services than ever before... and this HAS to be impacting MK and a lot of other businesses that have been around awhile who have relied on interpersonal methods of selling product. I personally love to shop on the internet - it's fast, convenient, and I don't have to deal with a salesperson (oops, consultant)! 
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« Reply #7 on: October 16, 2007, 11:04:28 PM » |
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Have you heard about RipOffReports.com ? They have a couple of reports about MK, and the replies are too funny!
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"Some people care 'bout what other people think, worry 'bout what they say. Let a little gossip coming from a loose lip ruin a perfect day. Sayin' 'bla bla bla' just jackin' their jaws, gotta let it roll off-a my back. I don't give a damn what other people think, what do ya think about that?" M. G.
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« Reply #8 on: October 17, 2007, 04:09:43 PM » |
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Hey, Pink Doubts, do you happen to have the link to the Walmart story? I would love to read that! I totally agree with you about shopping online. Especially with little ones, going to a store for ANYTHING is a hassle!
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« Reply #9 on: October 17, 2007, 09:20:50 PM » |
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Hi Danielle, I don't have the link, but sometimes on cnn.com you can find archived stories, and the one about Wal-Mart is probably somewhere on the business section. Well, I just looked and it's not there. I will keep checking over the next several days, sometimes it takes awhile to show up. Eventually it will, everything does...will let you know what I find.
And best of all, I am finally FREE from the MK pink bubble...today I realized that what I have been doing for a living (and pretty well-paid at that, I might add) probably has a market out there, instead of doing this for a single company/boss. In other words, I think I can take my marketing skills and find clients who will pay me for bringing in new customers the same way my current employer does. Only, if I have several clients (and I have had several business owners, including one who asked to go along with me as I made my calls to learn from me, tell me they wish I could do the same for them in the past), I might actually be able to make more money than I currently am even with self-employment taxes and health insurance costs. I am going to do more research into this....but I am definitely excited about the possibility! Wooo-hooo..........
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