My director was very close to NIQ. Another consultant and I were the next ones in line for directorship as far as personal team size was concerned.
I wanted directorship with a passion because one time at Seminar another director who I thought was a pretty good friend invited me to go along with the directors in our almost-national area to the mall. I wanted to change into some "walking" shoes so I told her great, I'd be right back. I went to my room to change my shoes and went back to the meeting place in the lobby. They were all gone. I felt so disheartened and embarrassed. I felt like the geek at highschool.
When I saw them all later that night at our area meeting one of the other directors in our almost-area just laughed in my face and said, "Sorry NMG, you're not one of the big girls yet!" I will NEVER forget her words or the cackling sound in her "laugh".
That was my resolve to make it to directorship. Then, when my director told me that we were so close to becoming a national area I was so excited and felt so wonderful that she had confided that to me. Then she told me I and so-and-so were the next ones in line for directorship and if we could get through DIQ, she would be in NIQ and we would be ready to rock. Then she told me that the average income for a first year director is $30,000. To me and my hubby that was sweet music to our ears.
So, I guess to answer in short form:
a) A sense of belonging
b) A sense of being "needed" and a way to contribute to something BIG
c) The idea of $30,000 a year setting my own hours and having time to go to my kids' activities
WHAT A CROCK OF SHIT!