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« on: October 10, 2006, 03:24:22 PM »

I struggle almost everyday that I go into my closet and there it sits, like a knot on a log, my inventory.  It doesn't sell itself like I was told and whole heartly hoped.  I told my husband I was going to start my Mary Kay business and he tried to talk me out of it but I proceeded to recite the script that was given to me by my recruiter and her husband.  But it just didn't work out for me like I had hoped.  Although, I still sell product to my 5 or so customers (who are really great customers, I think) I just cannot find it in me to "warm chatter" people in the stores, I just want to get in and get out not go searching down every aisle for a lady that I think "looks sharp."  I don't know how to tell him that my pink bubble has burst, and I will not be driving a car from Mary Kay any time soon or ever for that matter.  I want to wait until November 11 comes around though to keep my product.  That is my last attempt to sell everything off while still trying to make some money to pay off my Mary Kay debt ( I owe about $850).  After that though I want to sell the rest to anyone that would take it.  I want to stay PU because I like the products, so I don't want to send my inventory back to the company (which seems like a hassle anyways).  I just feel so guilty about it.  I sincerely had very high hopes and dreams because I am a stay at home mom to 2 small boys and am not working because it makes no sense to me to pay someone else to watch my children during the day when it would take my whole paycheck to pay them.  MK was supposed to help me help my family, especially in the monery department, and allow me some time to interact with others who could actually carry on a conversation with me not just tell me what they want like the children do (they are still young, only 3 and 1 1/2).  But it turned out to be a bad mistake, although I found a great product for my face.  But no true friends have come from my business like I had hoped, because I have only lived in this area for 2 1/2 years and I am due to move again in 9 months. 

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« Reply #1 on: October 10, 2006, 04:00:18 PM »

Hey CDM337, no worries, you can always get product here on this forum, or through Ebay--there will always be consultants selling off their stock, because just like us they "had a dream" that just didn't come true!  Your husband would probably prefer to hear your honest heart felt description of what you had hoped for, and why Mk can't be that for you, than for that inventory to sit in that closet forever!  Mine was so relieved when I announced my departure from the pink cloud I was riding on--and it felt good to get some of those pent up emotions out!
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« Reply #2 on: October 10, 2006, 07:13:38 PM »

CDM,
Have you called the Repurchase Dept to find out how much you are eligible to return?  That may make a huge dent in your debt.  As for getting the products you love, there are lots of women on this board who were not able to send inventory back and would love to deplete what is left sitting on their shelves.  Good luck with your decision  tgther
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« Reply #3 on: October 10, 2006, 08:10:28 PM »

Hey CDM  wave  Honestly, my hubby was so glad to see it go.  I think there's this perception, (mostly driven by all the MK directors out there praying they won't get a call from MK repurchase DPT) that if you send it back, it's forever, and we just shouldn't make such a "rash" decision...I remember hearing, "What if you need this opportunity?" "What if something happens to your husband and you need the income?"  Yadda yadda yadda...

I sent mine back, an enormous amount of wholesale, and no one I knew died as a result.  (Directing my sarcasm to the countless *gasps* I know were heard when Free burned that bridge)  And I love the product too, well most of it, anyway, but it certainly wasn't worth the waste of money-time-and energy I'd need to expend to move it off my shelves.

Your children ARE important.  SOOOOO much more important than what anybody thinks about you or your decision.

I just want to absolve you of the guilt.  Cause I have been there, and remember crying about what I had done to myself and my family.  It really is gooooood to be freefromitall!!! For you, CDM  bighug
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« Reply #4 on: October 10, 2006, 08:36:07 PM »

Thanks ladies.  I honestly thought about signing my mom as a consultant so we can still receive the product at half off, since between the two of us we could order $200 a quarter and sending my product back to the company after November.  What do you think?  Is it worth it?  How hard is it to send product back anyway.  If you answer this please use baby steps because MK confuses the hell out of me.

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« Reply #5 on: October 10, 2006, 08:41:06 PM »

HEY!  Great idea!  Actually I did the same thing...signed my mom up and now she takes a big order from her buddies who dodge the pushy Mary Kay lady at the library and that's how I'm getting my timewise.

I would sign her up first, then call the repurchase department.  Don't ask your director how to do this, because she will be ever so unhelpful.  I think there's a whole topic on how to send it back on this site...help me out here someone.

And we don't order once a quarter, just once a year.  You can go inactive and still place a 200 once a year to get the discount.  Another commonly misrepresented fact by desparate directors...  Boo
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« Reply #6 on: October 10, 2006, 09:41:34 PM »

Thanks ladies.  I honestly thought about signing my mom as a consultant so we can still receive the product at half off, since between the two of us we could order $200 a quarter and sending my product back to the company after November.  What do you think?  Is it worth it?  How hard is it to send product back anyway.  If you answer this please use baby steps because MK confuses the hell out of me.

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Not hard at all!  Just call the company, I'm sure the # is around here somewhere or you can probably find it on InTouch.  They tell you how much you are eligible to return (the amount you purchased in the previous 12 months), they send you a form, you box up your stuff and send it back.  They may or may do some MK math with deductions for prizes and comissions (I say "may" because I didn't get anything taken for prizes but others have), and they send you the best damn Love check you'll ever get from that company!  I would suggest screening your calls once you hang up with the Repurchase Dept because they do call your  Kaybot director who will try to talk you out of it  Boo  Avoid her calls or tell her to  mad2
About 4-6 weeks later (on average, mine took 3) you'll be home free with your check in hand!  dance
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« Reply #7 on: October 11, 2006, 07:42:04 AM »

Do you have to send back exactly what you bought or just the dollar amount in product, any product?  Plus how do I sign up my mom without letting my director know, or anyone but the company for that matter.  Do she have to buy the new consultant welcome kit?  I have so may wuaetions but have to take my son to school so I will have to ask later.
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« Reply #8 on: October 11, 2006, 07:55:28 AM »

I sat my dh down and told him I had found info (on mksucks) that suggested mk was a pyramid scheme.  He agreed after  we talked awhile.  Then he called our ccs.  That was not so good.  I had not told him every thing I ordered because I fell for the "he doesn't know what your business needs are" line.  I'm sooooo embaressed! Anyway he didn't condemn me, just wanted to know how to get out.  Thats where y'all come in!  So I'm going through the process of having a sale, then a 50% sale, then sending back product and garage saling what is left.  Fortunately for me, my marriage is grounded in Christ so my hubby believes in forgiving and not holding grudges but the guilt is still awful!  So is the grief of leaving a dream.   Love y'all
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« Reply #9 on: October 11, 2006, 08:22:51 AM »

pinkdebt, it's so nice to hear that your spouse is so supportive, mine also just chalked it up to a lesson learned and said "Let's fix it and move on".  How fortunate we are to have such wonderful men in our lives!
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« Reply #10 on: October 11, 2006, 08:55:04 AM »

My DH like to have had a fit when he saw how I abused out Credit cards! mad2   But he got over it and was very relieved when I sent all that product back, he ask me everyday since it has been sent off if I have got my check yet!   bighug
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« Reply #11 on: October 11, 2006, 09:28:41 AM »

I have been telling my husband about this great forum.  Yesterday I called corporate to get the buy back amount and told him I am OUT.  He has been very supportive.   Our guys will be proud of us for making this decision.  CDM337 -- yours will be too. 
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« Reply #12 on: October 11, 2006, 09:31:48 AM »

Done w/DIQ:  I know! I really thought I was gonna be in for it!  I woulda been  bleepmeed if mine had done that to me with say Arbonne.  But no, he just held me while I mourned my lost dream. 
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« Reply #13 on: October 11, 2006, 09:52:42 AM »

Ha, I'd have felt the same way----------we normally don't make any financial decisions without each other but when it came time to make decisions for MK I just jumped right in and racked up the debt!  "What he doesn't know will make him trust you more" is what my  Kaybot would say.........
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« Reply #14 on: October 22, 2006, 09:22:25 PM »

My fiance has always been supportive of my decision to do MK, thankfully I have not racked up that much inventory.  In fact, he has told me to stop reading these sites if I want to make the MK thing work.  But reading these sites is the best thing for me because now I know that I  was not failing the company, the company is failing me.  I just wish I would have found this site sooner, I would not have put in an order the other day had I found this site with lots of people getting rid of inventory.  Thanks ladies--you are making a great difference in my life.     yourock
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